Why does My Dog Follow Me Everywhere? Please explain!

“Why does my dog follow me everywhere” was never a question I asked until my life was graced by a dachshund. Sure, there have been other dogs in my life that would follow me often. But Paul has taken this game to an entirely new level! No shower, bathroom break, meal, nap, chore … quite seriously NO activity is complete without Paul following behind me.

Very recently, Paul was struck by vestibular syndrome and was down and out for many days. I spent most of my waking hours caring for him in one way or another. But when I had the opportunity to take a few moments out for myself, I felt terribly uneasy when my sausage-shadow wasn’t behind me. I didn’t hear the familiar sound of him following me across the wood floor. He wasn’t waiting for me after my shower. He wasn’t sitting under my chair while I ate or worked at the computer. It was then that I felt the full force of just how much he had infiltrated his little body into EVERYTHING I did.

 

ARE WIENER DOGS MORE PRONE TO FOLLOW?

There are differing opinons regarding this question as there are several breeds that have the tendency to follow.  Therefore, I have no clear-cut answer for you.

On the other hand, considering my experience with Paul and having spoken to numerous other dachshund owners … there seems to be a tendency towards this “following behavior” in the dachshund. Not only that, it’s also worth considering their origin … Germany.

WHAT’S GERMANY GOT TO DO WITH IT?

In Germany, a dachshund is known as a “Dackel.” Keeping in mind that Dackels have had a long history in Germany, it should go without saying that this has given the Germans a long time to study the behavior of the dachshund. What have they found? Let’s just say that the “Dackel” has changed the German vocabulary!

Today in Germany, a “Dackel” is not only the sausage-shaped dog we’ve come to love … “dackel” is also a verb! I’m serious! What does the verb mean? To put it simply, to “Dackel” means to walk in the manner in which a Dackel does; with a kind of wiggle or a dance in his step. And this verb can apply to anything or anybody who moves this way … including humans.

A quick translation guide:Come On in

  • a “Dackel” (a dachshund)
  • to “dackel” (to walk in the manner of a dachshund)
  • to “Hereindackeln” (to dackel on inside … e.g. come into my home)
  • to “Hinterherdackeln” (to walk or trail behind another in the manner of a dachshund)

“Hinterherdackeln” is more proof that dachshunds are known to follow! And what’s more, it’s the only breed recognized for this behavior in the form of a word.

 

SO, WHY DOES MY DOG FOLLOW ME EVERYWHERE?

Well, I’m afraid there isn’t one reason for this phenomenon. In fact, the answer is usually dependant on more than one factor that are unique to your situation. Some things to consider are:

The breed of your dog: Unlike the dachshund, there are dogs who tend to not only follow, but also to herd their people. Of course, I am referring to the “herder breeds” (e.g. Shepherds, Collies, Sheepdogs, etc.). “Worker breeds” also tend to attach themselves to their humans (Huskies, St. Bernards, Malamutes, etc.).

“Pack mentality”: Let’s not forget that dogs have a “pack mentality,” and YOU are a member of their pack! This is one of those characteristics that separate the dogs from the cats. Dogs “need” others to feel complete. Cats do not require a pack to feel complete.

Your role within the pack: Whether you’re in the “alpha” role or you’re the one who typically feeds, plays with and gives treats … you will likely be followed! Let’s be realistic, wouldn’t you follow the good stuff?

Fear of abandonment and separation anxiety: For example, was your dog a rescue? Are you aware of his history? Some dogs who’ve been treated poorly or abandoned in the past can develop separation anxiety later.

In Paul’s case, there are three considerations. Aside from the fact that he is a dachshund (and thus has a tendency towards “dackeling”), his previous owner passed away before we welcomed him into our home. Once he became comfortable with us, we began to see signs of separation anxiety and found it very difficult to leave him alone without him having a panic attack. However as we later discovered, separation anxiety can be very common in dachshunds … regardless of their history. See what I mean? It can be very difficult to nail down only one reason for your dog’s attachment and “following behavior.”

 

I LIKE THAT MY DOG FOLLOWS ME. IS IT ACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR?

Certainly it can be kind of cute and even flattering to have a buddy that is so enamored with you. But at some point you have to ask yourself if it’s healthy for the dog. Certainly in the case of separation anxiety, it’s not healthy behavior and can cause lasting damage to him. Not only that, it can make your life very difficult if you work outside the home or if you simply would like to go out without your dog. Try having a romantic date with your partner when your dog has separation anxiety!

SO WHAT CAN I DO?

Unfortunately, there are no easy answers to eliminate separation anxiety. To see improvement, you will need to approach it from more than one angle.

First and foremost, the situation calls for a lot of patience and positive reinforcement while you work to change his behavior. Also, consistency! Don’t give up before he’s had the chance to learn!

Educate yourself on the subject of training and don’t be afraid to ask for help from a professional trainer or dog-behaviorist. Your veterinarian is also a good resource for advice.

In addition to proper training, make sure your dog gets plenty of exercise. Play with him and walk with him regularly. Introducing him to other dogs might also be helpful.

Finally, in severe cases of separation anxiety, you may need to consider medical intervention. Your veterinarian may prescribe medication to help calm your dog.

PAUL TODAY…

No photo description available.Paul is much older now and although there was a time when I could leave him alone for a bit, those times don’t happen much anymore.

He is now vision and hearing impaired and sometimes gets a bit confused. Because of this, his bed is in our bedroom as he has a tendency to wake up and get stuck in different places when he walks blindly about. When he’s near us, I can hear if he has any problems. These problems have caused a bit of anxiety in his little life but anti-anxiety type medications are not an option for him.

However, I’m very fortunate to be able to work from home. Fortunate for me, fortunate for Paul. Leaving him for hours at a time is not necessary and I probably wouldn’t do it anyway. So, Paul’s anxiety is decreasing.

Oh, he still follows me most everywhere. But he recently started following my husband as well. My husband is overjoyed and I’m a bit relieved. Good for everyone!

-Michelle

If you enjoyed this article or have any comments or questions, I’d love to hear from you. Please leave your comments or questions below.

And in closing … please enjoy this snippet from “Crusoe, the Celebrity Dachshund” …

 

 

 

11 thoughts on “Why does My Dog Follow Me Everywhere? Please explain!”

  1. Hey
    What a really great article, it’s evident just how much you and your dog love each other. I have dogs myself so I know the issues with separation anxiety, fortunately we have 5 dogs so they are able to find companionship and company most of the time.

    This will be an issue that a lot of dog owners will be facing and I’m sure a question that a lot of people have unanswered so this article will be a great help I’m sure.

    Exercise is key for dogs in this state so I am glad you have mentioned this, so many dogs do not get the right degree of physical and mental stimulation which leads to lots of problems.

    Nice article
    Best wishes
    Justin

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    • Thank you! True! In our busy world, many dogs lack proper exercise and stimulation in their lives as folks can’t find the energy or time to give it to them. Sad! Wish there was an easy answer.

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  2. Really happy to have come across this article. I have an Australian Shepherd, which are not as diminutive as Daschunds but just as velcro-y. I reared my Aussie from the age of 8 weeks so we developed a very close bond. He’s 10 now and has become the best of friends.l Although he isn’t my “sausage-shadow” he comes with me wherever I go. There have been times where he’s snuck on to my lap while driving or watching a movie. A couple ways that I found work to develop independence in a dog are: (1) socializing the animal with other dogs for play dates and (2) Long exercise walks in the woods where a dog can burn energy and explore with those amazing noses of theirs. On walks in the woods my Aussie will run away and come back at a whistle. These two practices really helped give him independence and strengthened our bond. Finally, dogs have a crazy innate ability to detect health issues. I’ve noticed my aussie will lay beside me more often when I am feeling ill so sometimes a dog’s constant desire for proximity is a warning sign.
    Keep writing great articles infused with humor. Your use of humor and your matter-o-fact approach to writing really kept me reading.

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    • Thank you Justin! You made an interesting point in your comment, and that is allowing them to explore and get exercise (especially if you’re able to do so without a lead), not only makes them less “velcro-y” but also more independent. In other words, they gain confidence! A great trait for a dog to have. Thank you for sharing.

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  3. Your article hits home with me very much, I also have dogs who follow me everywhere I go and look so sad when I have to go out and they must stay home. My 9-year-old Rottweiler has always been right by my side since I brought him home, but now he is getting old and his health is not good. I miss him being right by my side very much, and when I come home there is no big smile and wagging tail waiting for me at my door.

    I know how you feel
    Jeff

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    • Ah! A “worker dog” (Rottweiler). Our neighbor’s Rottweiler would visit us often and even made herself at home on our sofa (I have pics). Yeah. I’m sure he’s by your side often. It’s hard when they slow down and don*t meet you the way they used to. But the love they have for you is still there. Many thanks for your moving comment, Jeff.

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  4. Hello Michelle, I must say that this article is very helpful and informative. I like that you used a little bit of humor in this text, I have a German Shepard and sometimes it is a little annoying when he follows me everywhere, I like him but even when we have guests and parties, he keeps following me. Based on your article I now understand why it is like that, I will try to solve it thanks to your tips.

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    • Yes it can be a bit annoying when there are guests involved in the mix.  Paul likes to follow and get in the thick of it …. right between everybody’s feet and then plops down on top of mine. 🙂 

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  5. Hello Michelle, I must say that this article is very helpful and informative. I also have dogs who follow me everywhere I go and look so sad when I have to go out and they must stay home. I have a German Shepard and sometimes it is a little annoying when he follows me everywhere, I like him but even when we have guests and parties, he keeps following me. 

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  6. Dachshunds are cute. I was just looking of the picture there before i started to read your post. Did you know that the reason why the Dachshund is called a Wiener dog is because it was said in Germany that they kinda look like a little hotdog? And guess what, the original name for a hotdog in Germany was the Dachshund sausage.

    So, why does your dog follow you everywhere? From what i’ve learned the Dachshund or Dackel tends to form a very close bond with its owner and then has a strong instinctive urge to just follow you everywhere you go. Especially as you are also the person caring for Paul, that makes the bonding and the urge to follow even stronger

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    • Hi Donald.  Thanks for your comment.  One thing that is interesting today is that many Germans aren’t familiar with the word “Dachshund” even though it’s German in origin.  At least this is my experience when teaching English.  To them, a Dachshund is simply a “Dackel.”  Ineresting, huh?

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